YOU CONTROL YOU!

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Learn to ignore and overlook many things if you truly want happiness in life  because the easiest way to a
 miserable life is to think that everybody is talking about you.

Never allow anyone to steal your joy from you.

What people say behind your back is none of your business as long as you are true to yourself. Never worry yourself about that.
Sometimes minding your own business does not keep
 people out of your business.
No matter your situation in life people will always talk. You can never stop people from talking about you
People who talk behind you are exactly where they should be
*Behind you*
There is a time limit for every rumor in life. Never allow freelance broadcasters put your life on hold. Do what makes you happy. *Anyone who cannot feel your pain, has no right to judge you in life. Seventy percent of those who talk bad about you behind your back, wish to be like you*.
Remember this: the easiest job for the jobless is to be a critic and their popularity depends on YOU
When people can't be like you they try to bring you down and condemn what you have. Those without money will sarcastically say money is not everything in life. (Is poverty anything?)

Never allow anyone to put you in a position of depression and self pity in life. Those whose life has no joy will always find every means to remove happiness from other people's life.

 If the wall doesn't crack
Then a lizard won't find it way in, if you don't allow it,the pain wouldn't get to you
If no one has ever gossiped or talked bad about you, it means
You have been doing things their way
If no one has never judged you,it means you have been trying to be a friend to all
And "a friend to all is a friend to none-Aristotle"
Even if he never said that
That's the reality
There are friends,there are Frenemies and enemies and trying to be friend with all of them is a LIE and DOOM on your part
Although people erroneously say if people has never been jealous of you then it means nothing good has never happened to you
Newsflash: people would still feel jealous If you are doing the wrong thing especially when you are HAPPY about it.
"HAPPY" that's the keyword to their SADNESS
YOUR HAPPINESS
Show It always,it kills them
Never feel bad when old friends become new enemies. They are just tired of pretending to be friends.
And never take those who cares about you as enemies just because of the result of your Insecured thoughts
Because you might end up getting FRIENDLY advice from ENEMIES and that is a wrong path to tread
Never allow the opinions of people who didn't see your tears stop your laughter in life. You don't owe
anybody an explanation to be happy.
Never see yourself through the eyes of those who don't value you.
To be beautiful means to be yourself. To stand out is to be out-standing. You do not need to be accepted by others. You just need to accept yourself.
Never beg anyone to accept you for who you are. Anything you acquire through begging will require begging to maintain or retain.
Be humble but selective. Being selective doesn't mean you are arrogant or proud. It simply means you know your worth. If you are conscious of your personality avoid too much familiarity.
So that you won't (Keran mero)
Sometimes when you treat people too much like celebrities, they end up treating you like an ordinary person. You are equally important.
Never downgrade yourself while trying to upgrade anybody in life. Anyone who sees you like an option doesn't deserve to be a priority in your life.
The dream of a fool is for everybody to become a bloody fool like himself.  Avoid negative people if you have a dream. Those without mission will say your vision is just an illusion.
Negative minds will never give you a positive life. Anyone who is always reminding you about what is wrong with you has a personal problem which he/she wants to take out on you.
Most people spend half of their entire life analysing the faults in other people's life, when their own lives need urgent repairs.
Never worry yourself about enemies and friends, because everybody in your life will eventually fall into one of the two categories.
Some will hate you and some will love you. Loving you or hating you are both in your favour. When people
 love you, you live peacefully and happily in their
hearts,  and when people hate you, you become the landlord in their head living painfully in their brain everyday and giving them headache
if you have  ever been faced with this
do you take it as HATE or BULLY  or a normal phenomenon
Because more often than not
LIFE is as we take it
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And your thoughts on this will be appreciated

You hold the remote Fellas
©Edu Ziyadah Oluwafunmylola


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