GENDER:THE POPULARLY ACCEPTED FORM OF STEREOTYPE

CHAPTER 1
EXCUSE
People find it easy to deceive  theirselves  with GENDER EGO
As if they both don't bleed RED
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This is what a male should do
This is what a male doesn't do
This is what a male shouldn't do
This is what females are expected to do
This is what a female should act like
This is what a female should never do
All these, Says who?
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Males don't cry
- he has never been in a situation that passes his capability
Female shouldn't  talk back
-she has never been pushed to the corner .
 if she has been listening to the society and when she starts to suffocate..survival instinct will kick in
Males are braver and has more mind in handling dangerous situations
-he has  never opened his cupboard and find a snake lying on his cloth in the middle of the night

Females are weak
-Tag a female who is a frontline combatant on that kind of Insensitive status
Females are more caring
-tell that to a single father who was left by his wife without looking back and he happens to b doing all the caring
Males are the breadWinner
-Tell that to a wife who is keeping the house running in all ramifications
A female should never: charge the father of her children to court
-i guess justice is a fable to those who says that
A man who rapes the child of his wife, beats up his wife and steals the money of his wife and feeds concubine's with it isn't the definition
Of a husband, he stopped being a husband when he started doing all those and I see no tangible reason
Why the female should also stick to the bargain and continue being the definition of a wife
All criminals should be dealt with no matter what TITLE the society gives them
Societal Immunity clause is just a way of saying "Hey! Thumbs up! You gave the right to commit the crime, to do and undo "
So Much for the existence of Human right
Chapter 2
INNOVATED DUTY
As a Male, when you are in the bus you should stand for the female on her feet
-and pray tell, give me a tangible reason why what should come from the man's willingly have to be a binding law?
But when the society makes it a law
then some water-heads who are not even worth the treatment starts thinking it's their birthright for a male to do that
As a Female you should submit all your liberty to the male
- except the maker of such law can give 786 good reasons as to how the life of the wife is an home-work that must be submitted to the teacher
then some Pea-Brains who are not worth the treat start thinking it's their right to inherit their wife and feed outsiders out of it
But when a wife doesn't do this
Then domestic violence becomes a normally as the wife refuses to give out HER property
CHAPTER 3
DOUBLE STANDARDS
"...you are pronounced husband and wife"
So goes the saying and not " Master and Slave"
When a man isn't doing his part in a marriage that's when he remembers
The "you are meant to be my helper" clause
Then the society comes in and garnishes it with their consent
(yep! You are meant to be with in good times are bad, that's your job in life)
But when he has all the money and resources then the "I am the head of this family, and you are meant to be submissive" theory comes
Once again, the society is there to
Give the husband thumbs
(yes! Let her know, that's her job in life).
Teenage Life:
When a guy sleeps around, he is just been man, in fact he gets medals for it.
He gets praised and glorified
When he is free with his life, he is just going through puberty stage, nothing harmful.
When a female does the same.
Well she is loose! And uncultured.
When she is free and bold, then she needs monitoring because any form of sickness she falls to connotes unwanted pregnancy.
Even if she was never pregnant, the society saw her vomiting but the stomach never came bulging then it means she must have aborted it
Uhm! What kind of culture certifies if a particular act is seen as a normalcy or crime based on specie?
Are the actions a form of drug prescription or something
Whatever act is considered bad when
A particular group is committing them should still be seen as bad when the other is doing the same.
Things go a lot easier that way.
People won't get to say "he is a man na"
As if being a man is the criteria of being an epitome of sin
Since the society preaches hell to female populace and how they are meant to be prim and proper according to the society standard, well it will mean HELL was made for the male populace? Since they are the only one allowed to sin
At, least justice will be happy that she is still breathing
Parenting:
When a Child turns out to be all kind of what is seen as bad then the MOTHER hasn't taught such child well, in fact it must have been a trait from the MOTHER'S lineage
What happens to the term "Parent"
Are they saying the mother alone is what connotes parent? So any fault
In parenting should go only her way
When a child is all what the people expects in a child.
Then... "Oh! That child took after his father"
Isn't that wonderful? So it means
That child was only created from the contribution of his father's semen alone, guess the womb, embyro and eggs of the woman was just a mirage
Confidence:
It a normal thing for a guy to like a girl and speak up, in fact that's the Standardized accepted aproach.
When a Lady does that...
"Wait! Is she suppose to do that"?
Excuse me why isn't she? She
Doesn't have the right to talk to a man
It looks wrong because the people made it look wrong, the orientation and all
In the end there is no tangible basis as to why it is wrong
Just for the love of "she is a woman, she is not meant to do that"

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If you see people not living according to the "People's recommendation "
And you are..
Do not..just do not for a moment think you are the PERFECT specimen for PRIM 'N' PROPER
Just have it in mind that the Remote of those people's life are not in the hands of the people like yours
Or
they choose to put their convenience above PUBLIC OPINION
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I react d way my reactions come
Regardless of whats expected of my gender
You should do the same
Their Opinions or Words
Are not the drive behind my
Unconsciousness
In my world: REACTION that best suit my well being follows any kind of ACTION
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In the end ,what's the gain?
Your Joy at the expense of
"What they will say"
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The HUMAN in me is the COMPASS
Not their words because there are varieties of "Words" out there
And if you derive your schedule from it..you are Synonymous to LOST

 © Edu Ziyadah Oluwafunmylola