The Bitter Truth

Don't You Dare... Don't You Dare Wish me Happy INDEPENDENCE  - What Good is the Independence  If the Authenticity of my way of life will be judge by someone else's What Good is the Independence if my natural attire will be classified as indecent dressing on a monday,tues or Wednesday or whatever day it is We were their strange attire,it looks so normal to Us, Pls The "TIE" thing what is the significance? A rope on your neck indicating what? This sense of  dressing will keep looking strange to me because it is not my way of life   And yet when you see an ihorbo man with his wrapper you laugh, when an Igbo man is wearing his singlet you snicker, when a Yoruba Man is adorned with his cap, you beef,when an hausa man cherishes his way of all life in all aspect, You Hate, you call them Backward  What use is the Freedom if I will only be referred to as  a LITERATE only if I can speak THE ENGLISH LANGUAGE  If we can be ILLITERATE For not know

Learn to ignore and overlook many things if you truly want happiness in life  because the easiest way to a  miserable life is to think that everybody is talking about you. Never allow anyone to steal your joy from you. What people say behind your back is none of your business as long as you are true to yourself. Never worry yourself about that. Sometimes minding your own business does not keep  people out of your business. No matter your situation in life people will always talk. You can never stop people from talking about you People who talk behind you are exactly where they should be *Behind you* There is a time limit for every rumor in life. Never allow freelance broadcasters put your life on hold. Do what makes you happy. *Anyone who cannot feel your pain, has no right to judge you in life. Seventy percent of those who talk bad about you behind your back, wish to be like you*. Remember this: the easiest job for the jobless is to be a critic and their popularity dep

 Everybody you will ever meet knows something you don't  When you say "What do you know about life" "What do you know about love" What do you know, What do you know! The problem is : "WHAT DO YOU KNOW!"?  People say "No man is an island of knowledge" But they still negate that theory with the notion of age grade. So where is even the sense in that? The fact that you are older means another is not entitled to a particular feeling? Means things cannot be looked at from other people's lens? All the things you are feeling: Ego, knowledge, intuition...Can you touch them with your hands? Did you give creation to them? For you to think you are the only one that has full grasp of them and you think others are not capable of it What about : Love, anger,Hatred and pain? Can you see and touch them? So does it mean they are not there? So many form IMPOSITION and OPPRESSION in this world and yet we hypocritically preach fre

Dear Best Friend,  It surprised god of Friend-Ship How I can easily  Nothing You It was so blissful But I was like Hey don't be surprised  I wasn't born with you After all we are not the first Ship that went into its doom , if it baffles you Ask Titanic,Explorer or john gilpin They were once useful But when the Wave and Energy Are not equal,something will definitely happen Just Like the energy from me And the wave from you So, am doing well without you Even extra ordinary thanbefore I met you So I don't get all this hullabaloo Coming from the people Because  no one is indispensable Not like you were even dependable - Ships are all about giving and receiving when one is higher than the other The only outcome is for the ship to drown just like our Friend-Ship,so no dilemma about it Doom ©Khaeyr

Dear Lover Boy, Your best Incantation ? 👇🏿 "I LOVE YOU" Have heard this so many times that I have lost count. By now,the word "I LOVE YOU" Is like Nigerians chanting "Up Nepa!" But since am allergic to entities Whose word doesn't match their action. So,Save your breath LOVER BOY. U ooze of lies Because u booze on it So save the lie For the water brain who thinks every word you utter is GOSPEL - What we have to do And what we do Are sometimes not the same In fact most times doesn't have to be same If not, You will be very sad that you ever learned how to talk Just so you know: If u ATTEMPT to play me U are going to PAY with INTEREST Darling,do not for a moment think my words are channeled from HATRED or REVENGE Those are signs of weakness my dear When I say you are going to PAY I mean you will have no choice but to  PAY apt attention to how I will play you at your game As for your fascination about me?, not ever

A Puritan Lady Have Her Head Cover An Hindu Lady Have hers too A Buddhist woman isn't devoid of hers either A Jewish lady is is known with hers too Mary Mother Of Jesus used hers too In fact orthodox catholics are mistaken for Muslims A Catholic lady have hers;at least I know of Mother Theresa who is always with hers and the same Hypocrites who boasted of her long covering not hindering her community services are the one debating so hard that a muslimah shouldn't wear hers that it Hinders Usually the source of the beauty of all these women are always attributed to their covering.  You also buy all sort of covering for your phone for a reason Best known to you too right? _ So what's all the fuss about a Muslim Lady wearing the Hijab? Islamophobia seems Like a pandemic that has eaten too deep - When a Lady is Free to go Uncovered Why isn't another Free to Cover? What happened to The Definition of Freedom in all ramifications?  O

The Hijab is a humble piece This piece is with no teeth It bites not nor devour you ~ The snail is covered in its own way So is the pearl with its own quay The royals are preserved with their own lace So why not give' my hijab it's own place ~ My hijab ain't an Hindrance ,but a Courage To Show People who use hating words dz humble piece that I can wear it and still have my brain intact ~ What is that chastity quote or was it fashion? "You are what you wear" ~If Rag is ur Swag,Den Hijab is My Identity ~If A Cute Hair -do is ur style,Den Hijab is My Swag ~ If Lack of hair covering Portrays ur Liberty Den Covering It Portrays My Liberty to also cover ~ When You are Free To Open, Den Y are u not free to cover? , • Note:We cover up our phones/gadget wt pouch nt bcoz we see it as an oppression on the them We cover dem up nt tinkin for one moment that we myt b depriving them of der beauty rather we see it as a form of b

Dear Sweet Talker, If honeyed words are all you have Then you have nothing to offer me. I am sure that your lady followers would fall prey to such lies that flies and though I am flattered, deeply So☺!, I love sweet words too,but only for the love of Literature but since am not a Fictional Character... For most women your words would have them begging for you by now, But I am not like most women. I believe in action SIR, not just words. For words are just words and anyone can say them. but action? I mean ACTION(the ones you do when you think am not seeing).. Now that speaks Louder than words. If by chance we do meet again my friend🙂 and you still haven't learn how to ask of my name instead referring to me as "Pretty, cupcake,angel" Please refer to me as "The one who got away" - #Khaeyr 🗯

We humans might think  we are TOUGH! ,  sassy ,unbreakable. 💪🏿 Dig a little and what you find is someone who is vulnerable someone who is waiting to be taken advantage of, someone who wouldn’t be able to spot danger if it approached ringing bells and announcing itself through a megaphone📢 - But we all need the armor and Ego At a point right? be it a Facade or inbuilt #Khaeyr 🗯

ADORING EXCESSIVELY! Idolizing a HUMAN is not my thing. Has never been - You are a scholar! In the: Islamic sense,Political sense, western Education wise Not enough to make a necklace of you and adorn my neck with it or decorate my various belongings with ur pics Not enough to make you my number source Of asking for opinion. Not enough to owe my allegiance to you No enough to view you as First among equal Not at all close to make me chant religiously whenever your name is mentioned I have got a little bit of every characteristics too - You are brilliant, enigma, charismatic ,Politically alive Bla bla bla! Recites the Full texts of the Quran in 2 minutes..? Can quote the whole World wikipedia Dictionary in nano second Pray for people and it always seem to be successful Predict and it happens? Bravo! Wonderful !.(Genuinely) That's all...it can't make me see you as a God's P.A Can't make me talk excessively about you Can't make me see you and

SECT BASED UNIONISM The Groupie Groupie loyalty thing Is just not in my blood in all ramifications Mo lazy gan😏 - "U did not come to meeting,u did not do this bla bla bla" Maybe the reason most thinks Am anti-social But since I don't answer  to any human,i don't have to change their perspective of me by explaining - Now pertaining to Religious Philosophy Each sect thinking he is the most righteous Each one of them thinking they are the real deal Each of them swimming in their ego Each of them feeling their sect way of life is the key to heaven Each of them thinking his view should automatically override others - That's how the MADNESS called BIGOTRY and FANATICISM starts Then the issue of FRUITLESS HATRED enters - "And hold fast, all of you together, to the Rope of Allah (i.e. this Quran), and be not divided among yourselves, and remember Allah`s Favour on you, for you were enemies one to another but He joined your hearts together, so

CHAPTER 1 EXCUSE People find it easy to deceive  theirselves  with GENDER EGO As if they both don't bleed RED - This is what a male should do This is what a male doesn't do This is what a male shouldn't do This is what females are expected to do This is what a female should act like This is what a female should never do All these, Says who? - Males don't cry - he has never been in a situation that passes his capability Female shouldn't  talk back -she has never been pushed to the corner .  if she has been listening to the society and when she starts to suffocate..survival instinct will kick in Males are braver and has more mind in handling dangerous situations -he has  never opened his cupboard and find a snake lying on his cloth in the middle of the night Females are weak -Tag a female who is a frontline combatant on that kind of Insensitive status Females are more caring -tell that to a single father who was left by his wife without looki