INSECURITY

USE OF DOUBT101

So, you've been with a particular Clique of Friends for years and you wanted to test their loyalty and planned trouble for yourself.

Hoping they were going to rescue you, only for them to back out; u came out sound and fine because the trouble was never real anyway.

Ok, so now you have tested their loyalty and you feel betrayed?

What if u never tried to find out and your friendship continues to bloom

Or You did and you are left with Doubt about if the situation was actually real?

What if you did and they actually helped? Is that a
yard stick that you will never be betrayed?

Was it really worth it?



USE OF FRUSTRATION 101
There is this person you have a BOND with
You both are not similar in all ramifications (Religious,Tribal,Ethnic,color,Tongue)
You share things, More often than not, you both don't even remember you are not SIMILAR
But whenever you are frustrated/ annoyed or feeling
Insecure, you always find a way of maneuvering your discussions into elements or your frustration : either Religious, Tribal, ethnic
You say all sort of things you wouldn't think of saying in a secured state of mind
that "Good" relationship starts to dent even after you must tried to re-build it with good words and actions
But the human mind is "Human mind"
Your words replays itself randomly in the heads of people you have said it to
You feel like justifying yourself
"After all we both uttered obscene words"
But deep down,you know
You purposely dragged both of you down that lane just to quench your frustration
Because logically, conscious
Violent actions brings unconscious violent reactions
The Bond starts to diminish until it goes into OBLIVION, due to your few moment of frustration
Then such person will be reverted to element of Generalizing your action on
People of your similar features
Was it really worth it?

USE OF MISTRUST 101

You set a trap of hiring someone to seduce your fiancée with the aim that you wanted to test the love between you two.

Your fiancée actually fell for it and you think "bam! I knew it!".

No! You never did, You actually created the betrayal

What if your fiancée will never come across seduction from other people except the one you created?

Was it really worth it?

USE OF IMPATIENCE 101

So, you have this sibling who always happen to disappoint you, you have done the right thing by giving that sibling a benefit of doubt. You invited him as a Parents/Guardian Meeting at

School by 8:00 am. He promised to be there, by 8:00 am, You already assumed he has done what he knows how to do best (Disappointing).

Then you begged someone else to stand in for you only for him to arrive few seconds later and find himself being replaced.

Can you explain your action at that minute?

Can you actually convince him that he was not an alternative all along?

Was it really worth it?

USE OF IRRATIONALITY 101
There is this person you love who doesn't feel
The same then an idea came to your head
"Oh! I can date someone to bring jealousy
Out of this person" just so he/she could love you
You went out there into the world of EMOTIONAL TEST TUBES! And just picked someone randomly!
"Yup! I like this one,capable of the job"
Forgetting that the only rational thing in "SHIPS "
Has to do with "Receiving  & Giving" and when your

TEST TUBE is not receiving anything,it will surely know .
Two things are likely to happen:
Your TEST TUBE becomes someone else's MAIN FORMULA
Your estranged LOVE doesn't  even care about your NEW FICTIONAL FOUND LOVE because what's there to jealous when he/she doesn't care?
Then you lost both
Even if your ENSTRANGED LOVER would have considered you after your TEST TUBE breaks,
The things you have done to Goad him/her(ENSTRANGED LOVER) while experimenting with your TEST TUBE will disqualify you
Was it really worth it?
  

USE OF ANGER 101

You Borrowed a pal your novel, that pal happen to have a friend you don't like. You came visiting and saw your novel with your pal's friend.

You Saw Red! And all sort of Danger symbolic colors! (that's if Red is not the only Color).

You Waltz up to that friend and yank your book from her and tearing it up in the process! More sparks to your anger, you started shouting! And pouring out your bottled up anger. Your pal comes around and explains that her friend also have the same book, then she shows you yours all intact!

Now you sure need another Ego because you are actually going to need to bring the one you have down to plead.

Was it really worth it?

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Before you embark on an ACTION,
Soul search: IS THIS WORTH IT?